Random hot-take of the day:
People way overvalue (or I guess the negative equivalent of overvalue) the significance of being annoying. Like people treat someone being annoying as being roughly equivalent to them being a serial killer, people are so vile sometimes to people they deem "annoying" and it makes me very uncomfortable.
Being annoying is not a moral wrongdoing, and it is generally not something people do on purpose, and it is usually pretty subjective as well. (Neurotypical people on their way to find every single thing a neurodivergent person does annoying and wrong)